For the next nine months, she experienced all the shame and guilt that comes with breaking up a marriage. She cried. A lot. But she cried with intention. She was purposeful in staying with the pain, staying with herself. She explored and expressed them. She wrote letters and burned them. Her saving grace was a group of girlfriends- who gave support and never judgement. And there was a tiny note from her cousin that really changed things. The note said: I love you. I believe in you. You need to fall in love with you. Then everything will fall easily into place. Her cousin told her to read the note every day. It seemed like a silly idea but her cousin was being so sweet, she thought she might as well do that small thing.
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